STATUS OF WOMEN IN ISLAM:It is often wrongly believed by Westerners that Muslim women are degraded with no rights and are kept hidden away. This type of criticism is entirely the result of ignorance and misconception because Islam liberated women fourteen centuries ago by giving them their full rights. Islam did not wait till women rebelled and demanded their rights as in today's world.
Fourteen hundred years ago while other Western and Eastern civilizations still treated their women as having no rights, treated them as their property and laid the responsibility of man's sinful fall upon a woman and declared her to be an instrument of the devil (as in the case of Adam and Eve), the Holy Quran testified to the spiritual equality of men and women. Sadly there are still some people who regard their sons as their great accomplishment and good future while regarding their daughters as unimportant and as an unwanted liability. I can assure you that they do not act upon the teachings of Islam, rather they are still following ancient customs and traditions which have been abolished by Islam.
The Holy Quran teaches that men and women complement one another and are the means of mutual fulfillment. It also teaches that the rights and responsibilities of men and women produce a harmonious effect emphasizing the equal importance of both sexes. At the same time it does not ignore or overlook their different capacities and, therefore, their different roles in life.
Islam has given women complete economic independence. At the time when Western and Eastern civilizations disregarded women as rightful heirs, Islam gave them the right to inherit money and property. Even after marriage they have the right to retain it independently. Also, part of the Islamic marriage contract states that the husband should offer a substantial amount of dowry, according to his means, to his wife, which becomes her sole property. Amongst other rights, Muslim women may pursue a professional career or business. However, this should not be carried out at the expense of her marital and domestic obligations and of course, keeping in view her circumstances, Islam teaches that the family unit is sacred and has priority and its safety and true prosperity in every respect should be considered inviolable.
A woman is naturally more caring and protective in nurturing her children. A woman is also more vulnerable and needs man's protection, strength and support. God has designed women to bear children. God designed nature to function this way. Even animals bear witness to the different roles of males and females.
The task, therefore, of upbringing children largely falls on the shoulders of mothers. In any case a young child learns mostly from its mother since it spends more time with her in the early years, than with the father. In their turn, children are taught by Islam to respect and honor their parents and to treat them with kindness and compassion, to care for them in their old age and to always pray for them. Here, Islam puts special emphasis on treating mothers with dignity, kindness, love and respect, so much so that one may attain paradise through it. The Holy Prophet said that Paradise lies at the feet of mothers. Does not this make clear the high status of women in Islam?
Another right given to women by Islam is that not only did women become entitled to education but it is essential that they be educated to the highest level. In some respects the education of women is more important than that of men because it is the mother whose influence most effects the next generation and is therefore, of vital importance. Islam has never stood in the way of education, rather it promotes it. The Holy Prophet has said to acquire knowledge is the duty of every man and woman, and seek knowledge from the cradle to the grave.
Now coming to another important aspect that the West does not understand is why Muslim women should be veiled and the segregation of men and women. First of all, Islam lays great emphasis on purity and chastity for both men and women. This is called Purdah. A woman especially is taught to cover her ornaments - these may be her hair, neck, bosom, legs, etc. - to guard and protect herself against the evil inclinations it might arouse in the mind of man if he sees her uncovered. This has been proved over and over in today's world where rape, incest and murder is reported daily in the newspapers. By displaying her beauty and making herself provocative and sensual for anyone else other than her husband, it will most certainly cause attraction, disturbance and excitement in other men.
The same applies to the free intermingling of the two sexes. So as you can see now, there is definite reason and logic behind the Islamic teaching for covering up. In any case, if you go back to history you will find that in the majority of civilizations that existed women always dressed in such a way that their ornaments were covered and this applies to Christianity, Hinduism and Judaism as well. There must have been very good reasons for this.
Another important right given to women fourteen hundred years ago by Islam was her right to divorce her husband. Up to then in all history only men could divorce their wives if they wished. As I have already explained, Islam lays great importance on the special treatment of women. If a husband maltreats his wife severely and does not look after her needs properly and there is severe incompatibility, she has the right to divorce her husband.
Though I also have to make it absolutely clear that generally divorce is not encouraged in Islam because of the devastating effect it has on both parties, as well as on the children. Divorce is described as being hateful in the eyes of God and this applies to both a man seeking divorce from his wife and to a wife seeking divorce from her husband. But still the right of divorce was given to women so that they do not have to spend the rest of their lives in a living hell.
In conclusion, I trust that those who are present here today, have become somewhat enlightened about the peaceful teachings of Islam and especially on the status, rights and responsibilities of Muslim women. Finally, I wish to clarify one more point.
Islam requires submission to the Will of God and in return offers peace. There are people, especially in the Middle East with its continuous war, who use the name of Islam to justify their acts of terrorism, bombing and killing of innocent people. The Head of the worldwide Ahmadiyya Community in Islam, Hazrat Mirza Tahir Ahmad, has beautifully explained that Islam does not teach violence and does not permit exploitation whether it be social, political, economic or religious. The political philosophy of Islam has no room for false or deceptive diplomacy. It believes in absolute morality and enjoins justice and fairness to friends or foes alike, in every sphere of human interest.
Islam neither permits compulsion for the spread of its own message nor gives license to other religions to do so. Indulgence in terrorism, even in the name of the noblest objectives, is entirely incompatible with the teachings of Islam.
Islam teaches that unless man learns to live at peace with himself and his fellow human beings he cannot live at peace with God.
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